What I Wish I Knew About Martial Arts Etiquette Before Starting Training in Surrey

What I Wish I Knew About Surrey Martial Arts Etiquette Before Starting Training

When I first walked into Jong Kim Martial Arts in Surrey, I was honestly pretty nervous. I'd never done martial arts before, and I wasn't sure what to expect. Would I make a fool of myself? Would I accidentally offend someone? Looking back now, I realize that learning proper dojo etiquette was just as important as learning the actual techniques.

If you're considering martial arts in Surrey or just starting out, here's what I learned about etiquette during my first few months of training. Trust me, understanding these basics will make your experience so much better.
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The Bowing Thing Actually Makes Sense

I'll be honest - the bowing felt weird at first. Coming from a typical gym background, I wasn't used to all the formality. But once Grandmaster Kim (9th Dan) explained the meaning behind it, everything clicked. Bowing isn't about being submissive or old-fashioned - it's about showing respect.

At our Surrey martial arts school, we bow when entering the training area, to our instructors before and after class, and to our training partners before practicing together. It sets the tone for everything we do. After a few weeks, it became second nature, and now I actually appreciate that moment of acknowledgment and respect.
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The Power of Silence During Training

This was probably the biggest adjustment for me. In most fitness classes I'd tried, there was usually casual chatter and socializing. But in martial arts, once class begins, the atmosphere completely shifts.

We listen closely to Grandmaster Kim and the assistant instructors without interrupting. No side conversations, no commentary on techniques, just focused attention. At first, I worried this would make the classes feel too serious or intimidating, but it actually creates this amazing learning environment where everyone can concentrate and improve.

It's part of what makes the Surrey martial arts community at Jong Kim so effective - everyone respects each other's training time.

Your Appearance Matters More Than You Think

I learned pretty quickly that showing up in a clean uniform (called a dobok) isn't just about looking good. It reflects your attitude toward training and shows respect for your fellow students and instructors.

But it goes beyond just having a clean uniform. Your whole attitude matters. Arriving on time (or better yet, a few minutes early), encouraging your training partners instead of criticizing them, and accepting corrections with humility - these things all contribute to the positive atmosphere.

I remember one class where I was struggling with a particular kick, and instead of getting frustrated, an older student quietly offered some helpful tips. That's the kind of supportive environment that good etiquette creates.
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Understanding Rank and Experience

The belt ranking system seemed intimidating at first, but I quickly realized it's actually about creating a supportive learning structure. Higher belts aren't there to intimidate anyone - they're there to help and lead by example.

As a white belt, I learned to watch and learn from those who'd been training longer. I avoided interrupting or trying to correct other students during class, especially since I was still figuring things out myself. This culture of mutual respect is what makes training at our Surrey martial arts school such a positive experience for students at every level.
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Safety Always Comes First

One thing that really impressed me about Jong Kim Martial Arts was how seriously they take safety. Good etiquette includes keeping your training partners safe, which means controlling your strikes, tapping out early during sparring if needed, and being honest about your limits.

I remember during my first sparring session, I was worried about looking weak if I tapped out too early. But Master Kim emphasized that it's actually the smart thing to do - it keeps everyone safe and allows us to train consistently without injuries.

This focus on safety is probably why so many families across Surrey trust Jong Kim Martial Arts with their training.
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How Etiquette Carries Over Into Real Life

What surprised me most was how the respect and discipline I learned in the dojo started showing up in other parts of my life. The patience I developed during training helped me at work. The respect for others became natural in my daily interactions.

I think that's why so many families from Newton, East Newton, West Newton, Downton Surrey, Fleetwood, Cloverdale, and other Surrey neighborhoods choose Jong Kim Martial Arts for their kids and teens. It's not just about learning kicks and punches - it's about building character.

Starting Your Journey the Right Way

​If you're thinking about trying martial arts in Surrey, my advice is to embrace the etiquette from day one. Don't worry about getting everything perfect - everyone understands you're learning. The instructors at Jong Kim Martial Arts are incredibly patient and will help you understand what's expected.

The free trial classes are perfect for getting a feel for the atmosphere and expectations. You can experience the respectful, disciplined environment firsthand and see if it's the right fit for you.
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Why Etiquette Matters in Surrey Martial Arts

After training for over a year now, I understand that etiquette isn't just about following rules - it's about creating an environment where everyone can learn and grow together. The respect, discipline, and humility we practice on the mat make us better martial artists and better people.

Whether you're a complete beginner or someone looking to get back into training, understanding these etiquette basics will help you get the most out of your martial arts experience in Surrey. And if you choose Jong Kim Martial Arts like I did, you'll find yourself part of a community that truly values these principles.

You can learn more about their programs and schedule a trial class at www.jktkd.ca. Trust me, taking that first step with the right attitude and understanding of etiquette will set you up for an amazing martial arts journey.

Jong Kim Martial Arts - Surrey - Taekwondo.

Unit 136 - 7536 130 Street, Surrey, BC, V3W 1H8.

604-590-1000

author: Grandmaster Edward Kim c/o Jong Kim Martial Arts